I had fun but this job was the reason the "bear" resembling, daddy type guy I was dating broke up with me (we weren’t boyfriend and girlfriend, just dating with the possibility of something serious- he knew exactly what he wanted and wanted to start a family quickly). 

I had asked him if he could stop by to bring me some medicine that I left in his car from earlier in the day because my head was hurting again( I was sick for majority of the 3 months I was there). He drove to me since he was already close by but when I came downstairs in a short black dress he asked why I was dressed that way (I normally wear cottage-core; girly but modest dresses) he knew I was working but I never explained where. When I told him, he got super angry and was screaming at me in his car and told me this type of job was for “loose girls”. He said a bunch of other things but I had no idea it was even a bad job. To be honest when he was screaming at me in the small space of his sports car, I thought he was going to hit me. I was embarrassed and scared and I really didn’t understand his rage. I just thought (and still think) customers come in and choose girls to sit down with them, drink and talk with them. That’s it. Sometimes a customer can bring you out of the club for karaoke, dinner or a nightclub? But nothing inappropriate. He told me I was being stupid and naive. I ended up quitting after our fight because I felt ashamed but all the customers were so kind to me and treated me with respect during the time I worked there. No touching is involved and no one was inappropriate with me or the other girls. I worked there for maybe 2 weeks and I went to a nice dinner with a customer in Itaewon, a night club in Gangnam with another customer where we had a vip section (and he was totally sweet to me it was other club goers and staff who were aggressive with me and trying to grab me- that man actually protected me) and then the last outdoor field trip was this fancy Karaoke bar with the other girls from my club. So many people were in this room, both “bosses and hostesses” all the hostesses were super skinny and model like. The tall blonde and her friend from my club and some other pretty girls from a different club. Even the older Korean, "madam-like" , lady with the other male bosses was super pretty. 

I keep saying "bosses" because I don't know how to describe them. Some of the guys were big-wigs in the TV and music entertainment industry and others were (I think) CEO's for major companies in Korea.